Helplessness in healthcare worker whose father postponed surgery

A nurse from Vietnam shares how she felt helpless when her father, afraid of an operation, postponed his illness for two years. As a healthcare provider, she knew that delay could be harmful, but she could not alleviate his fear.
The situation illustrates the dilemma of medical anxiety in the elderly and the emotional burden on family members. How do you deal with the tension between medical knowledge and personal fear?
According to the source, the daughter eventually took her father to a specialist, but the road there was difficult. Even with her professional background, she felt powerless.
The case makes it clear that fear of medical procedures, even if they are necessary, can be a serious barrier to adequate care.
This report is a summary based on the mentioned source and is not medical advice. Consult a doctor or pharmacist in case of complaints.